Don’t Love Without Loving
You can love someone deeply and yet be a poor lover.
That’s because one is about feeling and the other about action. Both is a kind of love, but having the first without the second seems rather inadequate — and it is. Just as faith should not be without deeds, love should not be without loving.
Ah, now there is a way to put it. That we love without loving. It is a wretched thing…
Some do not know how to love (in action). Some do not have the courage to love. Some lose the focus on loving as other priorities crowd it out. Some have deceived themselves from the start.
Actually those somes altogether amount to most of us. That we could love without loving, and all along feel good about it. It’s also a scary thought.
How is your love?
September 10th, 2009 at 3:22 am
among those,and how is yours
September 14th, 2009 at 6:56 pm
if love someone without loving, it will hurt the feelings of others.
please do not love or love to love ……
November 26th, 2009 at 8:20 pm
It has always been my concept of love. Love has to be mutual. But there are some exceptions sometimes, how about when two persons love each other whereas they do not know? The reasons could be distance, loss of contact, or any other possibilities.
December 3rd, 2009 at 11:45 pm
Don’t love without loving.Hehe~~Always we donnot make sure if we love him or her.Some ont said that,I love you not because of who you are, but because of who I am when I am with you.